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The Humble Life of Mai Kalwa
In our village Karaye, my father, Malam Mamman — popularly known as Mai Kalwa — was a respected man. He inherited the trade of making "kalwa" (local tobacco) from his forefathers. Though poor in wealth, he was rich in character. Everyone in Karaye admired his honesty and contentment.
Mai Kalwa had two wives: Indo, his first wife and the respected mother of his older sons — Auwalu, Sani, and Salisu. After Salisu, she bore no more children. Later, he married Lami, from a prominent family, who bore him Rabi’u and Atika. Indo ran the home with strength and wisdom, keeping peace and ensuring everyone was cared for, even Lami’s children.
👩🼠Goggo Indo’s Bond With Me
When I was born to Saudatu (the third wife, daughter of the village Imam), Indo took me as her own. She never had a daughter, so I became her joy and companion. She nursed me and raised me with love. Everyone in the household respected her, and I grew up under her wings. My name was Atine, a nickname from "Atine" — the name of Mai Kalwa's mother.
Despite Lami’s presence, Indo held the heart of the house. She was generous and strong, supplying the family with essentials and cooking with love. Her influence made even Lami’s children respect her. She sent all the boys to school, including Rabi’u — Lami’s son. I stayed closest to her, my every moment soaked in her wisdom and affection.
🡠Our Modest Home
Our house was simple — made of mud, with a large courtyard shaded by a grand dalbejiya tree. The compound had separate rooms: Baba’s, Goggo’s, Lami’s, and my mother’s (called "Amarya" — the young wife). A small shed was used for cooking, and an outside latrine gave minimal privacy.
Auwal, the eldest, was scholarly and kept his books beside his iron box. Sani, more business-minded, followed Baba to the market. Kalwa sacks were piled in a corner, and if tobacco had harmful effects, we’d all be sick by now — that's how much surrounded us!
👠My Sister Atika
My half-sister Atika and I were inseparable despite our differences. She was two years older, prettier, and obsessed with fashion and attention. While I preferred learning and simplicity, she was the village beauty. Though mischievous and fond of gossip, she shared everything with me — even her mother’s harsh words about Goggo and me.
Atika often told me, "Innata says Indo wants to poison you with rat rice or you’ll bring disgrace to the family." I would smile and say, "Don’t let their rivalry affect you. I love you. We’re siblings." She always nodded, but I knew her loyalties shifted.
📚 A Day in Our Life
Each morning, we prayed with Baba. Indo cooked koko and reheated leftover tuwo. If we were lucky, Auwal bought kosai. I swept the compound, cleaned rooms, and washed dishes, while Atika — if feeling generous — would help clean her mother’s room. If not, she returned to bed, sleeping like a log.
After Quranic school, we’d help Indo sell small items like omo and sugar. She taught us that hard work and honesty led to baraka (blessing). Atika loved going out with friends, but I preferred staying close to married women who recited religious texts in the evening.
🕌 Education and Identity
We both attended Qur'anic school with Imam Liman, studying hadith, tafsir, and grammar. While Atika was admired for her beauty, I was valued for my knowledge. Despite being younger, I was more focused and matured in thought. Many of the older girls admired my seriousness.
When Amarya gave birth to a baby boy, Jafaru, I took up his care. I fed, bathed, and cleaned him. His mother barely knew his habits. It was as if I was born for service — for nurturing. Even when my education suffered, no one noticed. I stopped memorizing, doing only revisions.
🧕 My Role, My Pride
Eventually, Amarya helped out by sending her baby girl, Sadiya, to her mother’s house so I could focus again. Yet, my bond with Jafaru had already shaped me. I had grown into responsibility earlier than most girls my age. Though I never went to formal school, my religious training, house duties, and Indo’s love molded me deeply.
Despite the struggles, I was happy — not because life was easy, but because it was filled with purpose.
💬 Final Reflection
Even though our house was the poorest on the street, and my clothes were plain, my heart was full. I had Indo. I had a place. I had meaning.
Indo would often say, “Atine, Allah ya azurta ki da hankali. Ki cigaba da riÆ™e gaskiya. Komai sai dai lokaci.” I carried these words like treasures in my heart.
No matter how people mocked us, or how Atika bathed in attention, or how Inna Lami belittled us — I knew I had what they couldn’t see: subtle strength and silent blessings.
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